Alternative Lifestyles @ AltFet.com The term Alternative Lifestyles is basically a blanket term that’s applied to practices that are different from what mainstream society considers the norm. It covers anything from spiritual practices to sexual k...

Honestly, we don't think of ourselves as "alternative." We're just regular folks who enjoy erotic stimulation more than most people. The erotic stimulation from our sex play and fetishes may or may not end in the act of sex. That may be surprising to...

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Let's talk about our kinks and fetishes What gets you off? I mean, what really hits you in the deepest darkest parts of who you are? You know…that thing that makes you catch your breath every time. Your heart pounds and your palms go damp, every h...

Bondage Bondage is a beautiful art that is practiced by many. There are so many ways to immobilize a person.  Tie them up, tie them down, hand cuff them to a chair or a bed or a post.  You can go for cages and shackles and even straight jackets, o...

In Chains We are Bound to Have Fun The sound of heavy chains dragging across the floor made the room seem as though Marley’s Ghost was about to walk through, howling and whining in a ‘woe is me’ kind of way. It wasn’t Marley, of course, but greg, t...

Kept Restrained inside Closet It’s dark in the room where I sit.  Not completely dark, but dark enough that I can’t really see much.  Not that there’s anything to see.  It is a very small space.  There is barely room enough for the chair I sit on. ...

Kinky Clothing and Accessories They say that clothes make the man…but make the man do what exactly? Everyone has that favorite item of clothing and/or accessories that just makes them feel good when they wear it. But some people take it further; t...

Leather There is something about the smell of leather that can turn people on at the first hint of its scent. Nowadays leather can be manufactured in a massive variety of colors and textures, as well as soft, firm and heavy. For example, you can buy...

My Pantyhose Fetish I have an obsession.  It’s not with a person, or a sport.  It’s not for a food or a television series.  My obsession is much more personal.  I love leg coverings .  I have a pantyhose fetish . I have a whole dresser devoted ...

Discipline and Submission Discipline and submission is all around us. Some people are just naturally dominant .  They take charge in their daily lives easily and without thinking about it.  It just happens for them.  Would it surprise you to know th...

24/7 Power Exchange Submitted by submissive sarah See video on Mastery and Power Exchange below My husband and I live a lifestyle that is known as a 24/7 power exchange .  You may know this as Master and slave or Dom and submissive. Here is a pe...

Auctioning Slaves in the BDSM Lifestyle Submitted by Master Lexifer There is a level of behavior, gallantry even, expected in the BDSM lifestyle and people who partake in it are not fools, do not have low self-esteem and are by no means, ignorant. ...

Forced Masturbation - A Dom's Perspective Submitted by Harry E. I have a thing for forced masturbation . My submissive partner is forced to submit to my commands at home and as she carries out her day. This is our naughty little secret that we...

Exhibitionism Do you get a rush from the thought of exhibitionism ? Think back to when you were five or six years old.  You’re at the top of the really tall slide on the playground getting ready to swoop down to the bottom.  You look around and you...

Erotic Dancing for the Thrill Submitted by Lacey M. I get a lot of flack being an exotic dancer.  I must be a prostitute, a druggie, a victim or a slut.   I’m sure that there have been and maybe still are women who fall into each of those categories who ...

My Domme Forces me into Nudity at Home Submitted by Rene G. This is the story about my strictly forced nudity at home. The first thing I do when I come home from anywhere is take off all of my clothes .  Right there at the front door.  Whe...

My First Voyeurism Experience Submitted by Kandy Krush I'm a voyeur and I enjoy watching other people having sex . I can't help myself. I’ve always been a people watcher . A lot of the time when I watch the people around me I like to imagine wh...

Masochism The Oxford dictionary defines masochism as “the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from one's own pain or humiliation.” So let’s talk pain.  Or we can talk about pleasure.  Maybe we’ll just combine the two a...

My Introduction to Fire Play Submitted experience by Tom M. See Kinky Fire Play Video Below Some years ago a friend of mine introduced me to fire play . At first I was really dubious because I was concerned about harming someone by making a mistake. A...

My Hot Wax Kink Submitted by Lexi & Danielle See the hot wax video below My sexual appetites are pretty varied, but sensory play, like hot wax , has always been high on my list of turn-ons. One of my favorite sensations is the feeling of hot ...

Role Playing Everyone has a role that they play in life; husband, wife, employee, boss, teacher, or child.  The list goes on and on.  Sometimes though, it’s fun to step out of our day to day role and become someone completely different.  Role playing is a...

The Kinky Interrogation Submitted by Terry and Craig Terry and Craig are male lovers from the UK who share a kinky interrogation fantasy . Terry reached out to us to share their story. He was a spy and I knew it. His dirty tricks had led me up ...

Kinky Prison Scenes Submitted by Gene and Hazel While most people have a deep fear of being locked up and put in prison (and that is more than enough to keep them on the straight and narrow) others do like to dabble in the idea of being incarcerated...

Sexual Play Among Kinksters Sexual play is one of the liberating ways kinksters may enhance the pleasure and passion of their sex acts with each other. For as long as people have been having sex there have been different views on how to do it, where...

Phone Sex Chatting on the phone is something that is always fun, if it’s with someone you get along with.  I used to be able to talk for hours and hours with a couple of my friends, passing the time, catching up and telling funnies. It’s all good.  Chatt...

Deprived of Sex Who would think I'd like to be deprived of sex ? I like sex.  I mean, I really like sex .  I’m one of those people that could very happily have sex every day and still want more.  I’m always horny and I see something sexual about almost...

In the world of BDSM there is no such thing as typical. There is really no ‘one size fits all’ dungeon. While there are professional dungeons that you may visit you’ll probably want to set up your own personal dungeon for at home play. If you do it’s ...

How to Build a Jail Cell for Your Dungeon DIY Submitted by Dom Ken Ever wondered how you can build a jail cell for kinky roleplay in your home dungeon? Roleplay is one of the most common and thrilling elements of the BDSM lifestyle. Many roleplay...

How to Build a St. Andrew’s Cross DIY: Build a St. Andrews Cross: You don’t need to be a master craftsman to create a simple St. Andrew’s cross for your dungeon. If you are familiar with a simple ‘angled cross lap’ joint you will likely understan...

How to Build a BDSM Whip Rack Every well-equipped dungeon deserves a top-notch display for the toys and tools it contains. Your whips, floggers and crops might be your very favorite tools to utilize during play sessions and you will very likely want ...

How to Make a Wooden Paddle Who doesn’t love to give or receive a good butt paddling? We thought not, so we also thought we would put together a little BDSM paddle DIY thing on how to make your own. It’s very simple and pretty easy to do. A wooden pad...

Meet Locals in the Alternative Lifestyles & Fetish Community! Wouldn't it be nice to meet local kinksters easily? Many of us spend years secretly imagining and longing to engage in our own kinky fantasies. We're held back by a number of reasons, ...